Tribute to parents...
看父母就是看自己的未來
如果你在一個平凡的家庭長大,如果你的父母還健在,
不管你有沒有和他們同住...
如果有一天,你發現媽媽的廚房不再像以前那麼乾淨...
如果有一天,你發現家中的碗筷好像沒洗乾淨...
如果有一天,你發現母親的鍋子不再雪亮...
如果有一天,你發現父親的花草樹木已漸荒廢...
如果有一天,你發現家中的地板衣櫃經常沾滿灰塵...
如果有一天,你發現母親煮的菜太鹹太難吃...
如果有一天,你發現父母經常忘記關瓦斯 ...
如果有一天,你發現老父老母的一些習慣不再是習慣時,就像他們不再想要天天洗澡時...
如果有一天,你發現父母不再愛吃青脆的蔬果...
如果有一天,你發現父母愛吃煮得爛爛的菜...
如果有一天,你發現父母喜歡吃稀飯...
如果有一天,你發現他們過馬路行動反應都慢了...
如果有一天,你發現在吃飯時間他們老是咳個不停...
千萬別誤以為他們感冒或著涼,( 那是吞嚥神經老化的現象 )...
如果有一天,你發覺他們不再愛出門...
如果有這麼一天...
我要告訴你,你要警覺父母真的已經老了,器官已經退化到需要別人照料了。
如果你不能照料,請你替他們找人照料,並請你請你千萬千萬要常常探望,不要讓他們覺得被遺棄了。
每個人都會老,父母比我們先老,我們要用角色互換的心情去照料他們,才會有耐心、才不會有怨言。
當父母不能料理自己的時候,為人子女要警覺,他們可能會大小便失禁、可能會很多事都做不好。
如果房間有異味,可能他們自己也聞不到,請不要嫌他髒或嫌他臭,為人子女的只能幫他清理,並請維持他們的『自尊心』。
當他們不再愛洗澡時,請抽空定期幫他們洗身體, 因為縱使他們自己洗也可能洗不乾淨。
當我們在享受食物的時候,請替他們準備一份大小適當、容易咀嚼的一小碗,因為他們不愛吃可能是牙齒咬不動了。
從我們出生開始,餵奶換尿布、生病的不眠不休照料、教我們生活基本能力、供給讀書、吃喝玩樂和補習,關心和行動永遠都不停歇。
如果有一天,他們真的動不了了,角色互換不也是應該的嗎?
為人子女者要切記,看父母就是看自己的未來,孝順要及時。
如果有一天,你像他們一樣老時,你希望怎麼過?
現在的你,是在當單身寄生蟲、還是已婚雙料或多料寄生蟲?
你留意過自己的父母嗎?
樹欲靜而風不止、子欲養而親不在,
您的父母還有多少時間等您?
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如果你在一個平凡的家庭長大,如果你的父母還健在,
不管你有沒有和他們同住...
如果有一天,你發現媽媽的廚房不再像以前那麼乾淨...
如果有一天,你發現家中的碗筷好像沒洗乾淨...
如果有一天,你發現母親的鍋子不再雪亮...
如果有一天,你發現父親的花草樹木已漸荒廢...
如果有一天,你發現家中的地板衣櫃經常沾滿灰塵...
如果有一天,你發現母親煮的菜太鹹太難吃...
如果有一天,你發現父母經常忘記關瓦斯 ...
如果有一天,你發現老父老母的一些習慣不再是習慣時,就像他們不再想要天天洗澡時...
如果有一天,你發現父母不再愛吃青脆的蔬果...
如果有一天,你發現父母愛吃煮得爛爛的菜...
如果有一天,你發現父母喜歡吃稀飯...
如果有一天,你發現他們過馬路行動反應都慢了...
如果有一天,你發現在吃飯時間他們老是咳個不停...
千萬別誤以為他們感冒或著涼,( 那是吞嚥神經老化的現象 )...
如果有一天,你發覺他們不再愛出門...
如果有這麼一天...
我要告訴你,你要警覺父母真的已經老了,器官已經退化到需要別人照料了。
如果你不能照料,請你替他們找人照料,並請你請你千萬千萬要常常探望,不要讓他們覺得被遺棄了。
每個人都會老,父母比我們先老,我們要用角色互換的心情去照料他們,才會有耐心、才不會有怨言。
當父母不能料理自己的時候,為人子女要警覺,他們可能會大小便失禁、可能會很多事都做不好。
如果房間有異味,可能他們自己也聞不到,請不要嫌他髒或嫌他臭,為人子女的只能幫他清理,並請維持他們的『自尊心』。
當他們不再愛洗澡時,請抽空定期幫他們洗身體, 因為縱使他們自己洗也可能洗不乾淨。
當我們在享受食物的時候,請替他們準備一份大小適當、容易咀嚼的一小碗,因為他們不愛吃可能是牙齒咬不動了。
從我們出生開始,餵奶換尿布、生病的不眠不休照料、教我們生活基本能力、供給讀書、吃喝玩樂和補習,關心和行動永遠都不停歇。
如果有一天,他們真的動不了了,角色互換不也是應該的嗎?
為人子女者要切記,看父母就是看自己的未來,孝順要及時。
如果有一天,你像他們一樣老時,你希望怎麼過?
現在的你,是在當單身寄生蟲、還是已婚雙料或多料寄生蟲?
你留意過自己的父母嗎?
樹欲靜而風不止、子欲養而親不在,
您的父母還有多少時間等您?
Johnny Depp's Many Faces
Johnny Depp!!! He's cool! Some of his movie characters are remarkable.
Johnny Depp is Edward Scissorhands in:
Edward Scissorhands (1990)
Director: Tim Burton
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifICXWSk5SevxaWVRwkI3XorgRO9xTyiHQC_zzBNBB3iEL08ctc6_wuRSQc-_U-fNv7p3P_aOnZrgRmrIMxhw6vaxfhyphenhyphensy99YuXoB8zcmD3BYUm_xFrgNEcLm95xo2DTBSgF5RRuD-WPrZ/s400/edward_scissorhands.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Wade "Cry-Baby" Walker in:
Cry-Baby (1990)
Director: John Waters
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg90lYICBk3DTnjgT3Y5hGHnneudTnEO3diHKd0otAxaZXX_MB-m46ICx3M7Tke95-P-_-B2UoGaHgaUuOKJmODg1vbhJkvHsbDkfRr7DCpCJFKvQUQetrAc-aFffXtrz17DjkuEq4hBnkX/s400/cry_baby.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Sam in:
Benny & Joon (1993)
Director: Jeremiah S. Chechik
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ6Xbq4KQe9GWfBRjzzXk48_V-0u7gjKlT6j5x4zGjzEhQV8dvR3kGO7ylxOi7Ro2WUoBQE0INi1XhlqmvC6i-NnnwWSZpik71b-jxtm1GW4MPp0eQMgYh4YzLMQA7stcxjWPP_AtABhyK/s400/benny_joon.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Ichabod Crane in:
Sleepy Hollow (1999)
Director: Tim Burton
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkMsgGJuXPmAYDhxlg9UVG_LxBLmqG8aBtMZR3qbii2MczYwicFHFXA40OU26uvfyr8N6Frd9IHuBWybMAA3Xknbso-nk-dny1lpCjNh3jZjNJvwD8m7FqkziWgLmXOAyzBF2Egwo1_iUU/s400/sleepy_hollow.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Inspector Frederick Abberline in:
From Hell (2001)
Director: Albert & Allen Hughes
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlsOhyVCnVXs_NhSkpa4A8O99P-MThyphenhyphenBwYRrmhNKgRWlH3pijEtMF4V8n0eeJuBijf2nOHhQ4n1zFs4iGHnNTmbzomEJr2I29RUUoSgAMjrZHI2uqLD15xZtKYozhXjur3N1aiLbavUdqx/s400/from_hell.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Sir James Matthew Barrie in:
Finding Neverland (2004)
Director: Marc Foster
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIHvoLHZ7IvaZ15QuGE47D1EtvFJs8mm3lK7frNN3NcXbXz2XcXf9_SGatJ_4MGjTdRS8UnK2GsVJWz4gMO78aciuS8YuUaB-j3_cxWOsDW4LNWthfVHyDN1oDtXc4UYSSZC5rEfme-hY3/s400/finding_neverland.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Mort Rainey in:
Secret Window (2004)
Director: David Koepp
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCV1xknCiJDcpgKS4fPrEpxojO_3Cye-Z6Jup-QE1tHQ890jQajDe-y6lm_m0PuQupPLIANo1s9mzONCgVZACsGcfMZfqL0TqpuaakKixGqIPqqxLHOvEgGNXyZPY2cDD0o3GkJ7JDU5Qt/s400/secret_window.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Captain Jack Sparrow in:
Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl (2003)
Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest (2006)
Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End (2007)
Director: Gore Verbinski
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEin-Fraio-EyPGVjqkTVlNLVgo4HbmeicTYrMn4pUooFJdWLgHaZo8NqmhJMHrttTr29KAALF5zEkHZroAFJBXmLgyObYANbe3jAsw06Zis9aJ_zY3IFxHQtlXtTtFSq5nua5K-HlWBJcWv/s400/pirates_caribbean.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Willy Wonka in:
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (2005)
Director: Tim Burton
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYPFPPdjlHjLO_u4oZnHCRbCn5O9V8PTGRfr3yUpmbgqEZ9RUNVrnI6_cXZYyY8dWev6t4EiANIpJaNbA3-VfmhbkHGnfc9nLoaa5tZ37846n9qUWyLbeqzEyTiMCrHcrGIrO6tcbXtpPs/s400/charlie_choc.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Sweeney Todd/Benjamin Barker in:
Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street (2007)
Director: Tim Burton
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Johnny Depp is Edward Scissorhands in:
Edward Scissorhands (1990)
Director: Tim Burton
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifICXWSk5SevxaWVRwkI3XorgRO9xTyiHQC_zzBNBB3iEL08ctc6_wuRSQc-_U-fNv7p3P_aOnZrgRmrIMxhw6vaxfhyphenhyphensy99YuXoB8zcmD3BYUm_xFrgNEcLm95xo2DTBSgF5RRuD-WPrZ/s400/edward_scissorhands.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Wade "Cry-Baby" Walker in:
Cry-Baby (1990)
Director: John Waters
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg90lYICBk3DTnjgT3Y5hGHnneudTnEO3diHKd0otAxaZXX_MB-m46ICx3M7Tke95-P-_-B2UoGaHgaUuOKJmODg1vbhJkvHsbDkfRr7DCpCJFKvQUQetrAc-aFffXtrz17DjkuEq4hBnkX/s400/cry_baby.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Sam in:
Benny & Joon (1993)
Director: Jeremiah S. Chechik
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ6Xbq4KQe9GWfBRjzzXk48_V-0u7gjKlT6j5x4zGjzEhQV8dvR3kGO7ylxOi7Ro2WUoBQE0INi1XhlqmvC6i-NnnwWSZpik71b-jxtm1GW4MPp0eQMgYh4YzLMQA7stcxjWPP_AtABhyK/s400/benny_joon.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Ichabod Crane in:
Sleepy Hollow (1999)
Director: Tim Burton
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkMsgGJuXPmAYDhxlg9UVG_LxBLmqG8aBtMZR3qbii2MczYwicFHFXA40OU26uvfyr8N6Frd9IHuBWybMAA3Xknbso-nk-dny1lpCjNh3jZjNJvwD8m7FqkziWgLmXOAyzBF2Egwo1_iUU/s400/sleepy_hollow.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Inspector Frederick Abberline in:
From Hell (2001)
Director: Albert & Allen Hughes
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlsOhyVCnVXs_NhSkpa4A8O99P-MThyphenhyphenBwYRrmhNKgRWlH3pijEtMF4V8n0eeJuBijf2nOHhQ4n1zFs4iGHnNTmbzomEJr2I29RUUoSgAMjrZHI2uqLD15xZtKYozhXjur3N1aiLbavUdqx/s400/from_hell.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Sir James Matthew Barrie in:
Finding Neverland (2004)
Director: Marc Foster
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIHvoLHZ7IvaZ15QuGE47D1EtvFJs8mm3lK7frNN3NcXbXz2XcXf9_SGatJ_4MGjTdRS8UnK2GsVJWz4gMO78aciuS8YuUaB-j3_cxWOsDW4LNWthfVHyDN1oDtXc4UYSSZC5rEfme-hY3/s400/finding_neverland.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Mort Rainey in:
Secret Window (2004)
Director: David Koepp
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCV1xknCiJDcpgKS4fPrEpxojO_3Cye-Z6Jup-QE1tHQ890jQajDe-y6lm_m0PuQupPLIANo1s9mzONCgVZACsGcfMZfqL0TqpuaakKixGqIPqqxLHOvEgGNXyZPY2cDD0o3GkJ7JDU5Qt/s400/secret_window.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Captain Jack Sparrow in:
Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl (2003)
Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest (2006)
Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End (2007)
Director: Gore Verbinski
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEin-Fraio-EyPGVjqkTVlNLVgo4HbmeicTYrMn4pUooFJdWLgHaZo8NqmhJMHrttTr29KAALF5zEkHZroAFJBXmLgyObYANbe3jAsw06Zis9aJ_zY3IFxHQtlXtTtFSq5nua5K-HlWBJcWv/s400/pirates_caribbean.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Willy Wonka in:
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (2005)
Director: Tim Burton
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYPFPPdjlHjLO_u4oZnHCRbCn5O9V8PTGRfr3yUpmbgqEZ9RUNVrnI6_cXZYyY8dWev6t4EiANIpJaNbA3-VfmhbkHGnfc9nLoaa5tZ37846n9qUWyLbeqzEyTiMCrHcrGIrO6tcbXtpPs/s400/charlie_choc.jpg)
Johnny Depp is Sweeney Todd/Benjamin Barker in:
Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street (2007)
Director: Tim Burton
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRMUOue0X3XrtAsSpa3PLoO7_J54FSgBp8MyJQIkOM7AwYLMloqZuNVwLSS1Bvx_hHSVESiWLI4fthA4dPM3fx5SEyI53o0weqIF3XSYjL-64akvMU2_I7ny-b4ulEANAJ0WQDlEqMsLZA/s400/sweeney_todd.jpg)
I'm still alive...
Friday, January 25, 2008
Two weeks not into blogging.
But...
I'm still alive...
Tied down by work and drama series... Haha!
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But...
I'm still alive...
Tied down by work and drama series... Haha!
Happy 2008!
Tuesday, January 1, 2008
Happy New Year
New year eve was excellent. Strolling at 1-Utama, visited DiGi's New Year Eve Celebration, and "redeemed" a cute "hand"!
Then, supper at Dragon-i Restaurant. Oh my... exquisite!
Meddling with mobile phone, sending & receiving new year greetings.
Finally, movie at GSC.
Thanks! It meant a lot to me... 2007 hasn't been easy. *Sigh*
Never mind! As for now, I can't wait to go to Singapore this weekend! Going to attend my pal's wedding. Yay!! Good for her.
Current mood: Holiday mood-mode :D
New Year, New Beginning
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New year eve was excellent. Strolling at 1-Utama, visited DiGi's New Year Eve Celebration, and "redeemed" a cute "hand"!
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuAsTzFQC635_DicvsmARwK3uJyzCOWydOPQXce6NUjHq9wuUt_IHxy8FYgK7j-zXOqBGJMZcHyKaUnYCPBJ9TIKn3IJoRGChjHgBjYjCH4V0B7668McU2y3L1rU7Kv8td1-hKu1V8Mkd3/s400/hand.jpg)
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXGny76Gt9MJqq82aS2SerNDlWlyjv7dB9W8MLxgx4g_ZNHZz0gCLIjBmNamc0fiZJ6VHzPPQEN4Qy-RmFuq5SK1nig32kSoXKaozYlZW13E6vn59vNCe2bX8euhhcRMdsnhVJRRpsMCs0/s200/dragonirestaurant.jpg)
Finally, movie at GSC.
Thanks! It meant a lot to me... 2007 hasn't been easy. *Sigh*
Never mind! As for now, I can't wait to go to Singapore this weekend! Going to attend my pal's wedding. Yay!! Good for her.
Current mood: Holiday mood-mode :D
New Year, New Beginning
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