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Buried in thoughts...

Most of us are visual-oriented. When we see something, be it a matter, scenario or situation, we tend to decipher it according to our perception, logic, and belief. However, do we ever realize that what we see may not be what we think it is or should be? Or worse, do we ever understand that what we think may not be what other people think?

We perceive things differently but the sad thing is that there are certain norms in the society, of which, if you go against them, you suffer. Or worse, others suffer as well. Ah well... it's impossible to please everybody. You make this one happy, you screw up with the other one.

So, I come to a conclusion. When we are making decisions to do or not to do, ask your conscience. Better still, if you are a believer, ask the Lord Jesus. Well, the Lord won't answer you directly but through His word and circumstances or people around you. When there's inner peace or when your conscience doesn't scream at you, I believe that decision is okay.
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I have a friend. A good friend. And he has a lot of female friends. He has some kind of aura that soothes the female species, I guess. From what I see, he does not have an intimidating personality and thus the females tend to "flock" to him for solace, comfort, advice, help, and companionship. This is a good trait that most females will be attracted to but at the same time, afraid of. Why? Because this male is "drowned" with the attention he receives from females of different personalities and characters and thus, it's hard for him to reject their invitation. In the end, it'd be either he or the female, or both, hurt. Hope this doesn't happen too many times. And of course, this is purely my opinion. It may not be so accurate. Although from my experience, I won't be too wrong. Haha...

All I can say is that females are funny creatures. Actually, they don't know what they want. And their act of sacrifice could be very "far-fetched", if needed. But I believe, the most important thing is to be happy with what you have now. Just let things be as per what they are now. Time will tell. And when time tells, you will be in awe. Nothing can beat experience.
*smile*

2 comments

  1. Oooo Ceri,

    Why the mmmmm? U mean ur turn to be buried in thoughts? Hehe...

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