RANDOM thoughts when the heavens decided to weep on a Sunday afternoon...
It's easy to LIKE somebody... but it's an entire different story to LOVE somebody.
Yet, it's harder when you love somebody who doesn't love you the way you love him, i.e. you love him with the love of a LOVER and he loves you with the love of a FRIEND.
Guys are funny human beings. They MAY LIKE you but they MAY or MAY NOT LOVE you. They may drive you around for meals, they may talk to you about their ideas, problems, etc, but it DOES NOT NECESSARILY mean anything.
Sometimes, a guy & a gal may be compatible in a mutual way, but not all end up as couples. Oh well... What an irony.
And it's advisable to end all kinds of ambiguity, lest misunderstanding is created. E.g. What if another gal likes the guy but she saw that the guy is with another gal (and that gal is not his girlfriend). Then, she might think he's taken. Or, what if another guy likes the gal but he saw that the gal is with another guy (and that guy is not her boyfriend). Then, he might think she's taken. You know... all these what ifs... (*eyes rolling*)
And usually, it's the gal who suffers more than the guy. I don't understand why. Is it because gals are prone to fall in love more easily compared to guys? So, when she finally found out that actually he has never thought of bringing their so-called relationship to another level, it took her ages to come out from that hurt and heartache...
So, be wise. When the guy never says anything to prove the relationship between the two of you, it is 100% that he treats you as his FRIEND, not as his GIRLFRIEND.
That's why I'm still single.
May the Lord bless him that he may find his true love.
Mission accomplished: Protecting myself from getting hurt AGAIN...
Current mood: Defensive
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